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I think I’m struggling with depression, I’m not sure what to do

Ashley Agwuncha


If you haven’t done so already take a look at our article “what is Depression”. It takes you through the basics of depression and gives an insight into what depression may feel like and you may be able identify with some of the issues addressed in the article


Firstly, depression is not a sign of weakness and can affect anybody, man, woman or child. It can be triggered by factors such as; major life events like the death of a loved one, extreme pressure/stress, complete change of environment (i.e. moving house, moving to a different country) or it may be idiopathic where there is no known underlying cause. It is very treatable, with measures such as talking therapies, antidepressant medication or a combination of both.

‍Courtesy of World Health Organization

However, the first step to recovery is acknowledging that something is wrong and not bottling up your feelings as this can make you feel worse. Step out of your shell and talk to someone you trust about your feelings, as a problem shared is a problem half solved. Also talking to someone is form of release and you may find that you feel better once you have expressed what you are going through and how you feel.


Seek professional help from your local healthcare professional (this could be your doctor, pharmacist or nurse) or seek out a mental health professional. Always remember that with the right help you can get better.


Keep up with your usual activities be it your weekly dinners with friends, a hobby that you regularly partake in or church gatherings. At this point, it may seem like no one understands you or what you’re going through. But it is of utmost importance that you stay connected and keep in contact with family and friends, as isolation can actually make you feel worse.


Ensure that you stay active and exercise regularly. By exercising you are releasing feel good hormones called endorphins which boost feelings of happiness and positivity. It is also important that you stick to healthy eating habits. Poor eating habits can affect your overall health, which in turn may make you feel worse. Avoid or restrict alcohol intake and illicit drug use as they alter your thinking/perception which again can worsen the depression. Good sleep hygiene should be maintained as it is clinically proven that lack of sleep can cause confusion, crankiness and a loss of concentration; all of which may exacerbate your symptoms depression.


As mentioned earlier the first step to recovery is acknowledgment and the second step is acceptance. It is only through these steps that can you proceed to seek the help that you really need.


Try to take each day as it comes ,adjust your expectations as you may not be able to accomplish as much as you do usually and that’s ok. Don’t be too hard on yourself, nothing is permanent and with the right treatment this period will be temporary.


For more information and advice on what to do call these hotlines to speak to trained professionals that help deal with depression

+2348062106493, or +2348092106493


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